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爱情天桥是让两个相隔的人走近彼此。。。

HomeWelcomeJul 13, 2005
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Blog EntryFeb 6, '12 10:04 PM
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很久没在这里留言或涂鸦了。
难得今天有空,赖在床上,拿起电话,开始动用那长期没用的右脑,写写那没来由的文字。

新年就这样,一转眼就结束了,又要为工作而忙碌了。
以前,都会很有冲劲的一路往自己的目标冲刺。
但现在,不知道是因为老了还是累了,总是提不起劲了。或许是失败太可怕,还是只想在原地踏步。。

除此之外,还是有振奋人心的事哦!今年确实是好年!身边的朋友们一步一步的走上人生的红地毯,开始另一阶段的生活和人生!看着朋友们都有不错的归属,让我觉得很高兴。。当然,钱包是有一点痛啦。。(因为,我已经受到10个红炸弹了 @_@" )不过,我相信是值得的。。

虽然我的祝福是迟了些,但还是希望所有的朋友可以幸福快乐,顺顺利利。。

Blog EntryFeb 6, '12 10:03 PM
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很久没在这里留言或涂鸦了。
难得今天有空,赖在床上,拿起电话,开始动用那长期没用的右脑,写写那没来由的文字。

新年就这样,一转眼就结束了,又要为工作而忙碌了。
以前,都会很有冲劲的一路往自己的目标冲刺。
但现在,不知道是因为老了还是累了,总是提不起劲了。
或许是失败太可怕,还是只想在原地踏步。。

除此之外,还是有振奋人心的事哦!今年确实是好年!身边的朋友们一步一步的走上人生的红地毯,开始另一阶段的生活和人生!看着朋友们都有不错的归属,让我觉得很高兴。。当然,钱包是有一点痛啦。。(因为,我已经受到10个红炸弹了 @_@" )不过,我相信是值得的。。

虽然我的祝福是迟了些,但还是希望所有的朋友可以幸福快乐,顺顺利利。。

Blog EntryNov 13, '11 5:37 AM
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几乎有两年没动手做蛋糕了,结果心血来潮的在两天里,做了四个蛋糕和一种饼干。
也算是尝试我的新烤炉。

哈哈,虽然退步了,不过还可以吃。。。
还有待改进,相信多做几次就会抓到应有的技巧。

在等待出炉的过程中,从烤炉里慢慢洋溢出那芬香的蛋糕或饼干味,再累也是值得的。
早餐简单的为自己冲杯茶,然后再品尝我做的蛋糕。。。
感觉是人生一大享受哦。。。呵呵。。。

NoteSep 11, '11 11:29 PM
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Blog EntrySep 7, '11 10:04 PM
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I hate fire fighting!!!
Why everyday must have fire fighting, but not solve the issues or prevent the issues earlier?

Everyday want to "cari pasal" like that! What the purpose? To show you are capable? Or to show you are smart?!


In fact, what I feel is you are ridiculous ~!!! Never know how to plan things!
Know nothing, but still want to act smart~ Creating joke and "memalukan"!

Blog EntryAug 24, '11 8:50 PM
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往往许多人在抉择伴侣时,容易东想西想,不知所措,就是因为害怕一时做错决定,看错人,造成终生的遗憾。 


诺贝尔文学奖得主萧伯纳说:此时此刻在地球上,约有两万个人适合当你的人生伴侣,就看你先遇到哪一个,如果在第二个理想伴侣出现之前,你已经跟前一个人发展出相知相惜、互相信赖的深层关系,那后者就会变成你的好朋友,但是若你跟前一个人没有培养出深层关系,感情就容易动摇、变心,直到你与这些理想伴侣候选人的其中一位拥有稳固的深情,才是幸福的开始,漂泊的结束。 
  
爱上一个人不需要靠努力,只需要靠际遇,是上天的安排,但是持续地爱个人就要靠努力在爱情的经营中,顺畅运转的要素就是沟通体谅包容自制 (面临诱惑有所自制)。有许多人总是? 
际遇所迷惑与苦恼,意念不停、欲念不断、争逐不散,而忘了培养经营感情的能力才是幸福的关键。 
  
所以不要去追问到底谁才是我的Mr.Right,而是n问说在眼前的伴侣关系中,我能努力到什么程度、成长到什么程度,若没有培养出经营幸福的能力,就算真的Mr.Right出现在你身边,幸福依然会错过的,而活在犹疑与遗憾当中,这不就是许多爱情虚无症的遭遇与心态吗? 
  
若你此刻已有一位长久相伴的伴侣,不要再随便三心二意地犹疑了,我们往往 不易察觉感情中的一个陷阱, 就是近亲生慢侮,也就是经济学中的铁律边际效益递减法则,跟你在一起越久的人,就越容易麻木与忽视, 而新鲜的际遇总是那么动人可爱。 
  
在感情对待中,难免有摩擦与无心的伤害,而且论得罪自己的次数累加起来最多的人,当然是跟我们在一起最久、最亲近的人。而新欢呢,又还没开始有得罪你的机会,再加上他的刻意讨好, 
所以新欢怎么看怎么可爱,旧爱怎么看怎么讨厌。但别忘了,新欢身上总是有不确定的未知数,爱身上就是有难得的熟悉感、确定感、信赖感。千万不要随便在偶然的中迷失了自己。
  
所以萧伯纳的话,是要提醒情人不要太钻牛角尖于寻觅那唯一,应该把精神用在学会经营幸福的能力上,同时也提醒我们弱水三千只取一瓢饮若有幸遇到了难得的伴侣,就不要再三心二意了,因为我们永远不知道一生何时会遇到两万个其中的几个,所以要知福惜福、活在当下

Blog EntryAug 19, '11 7:19 AM
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在国外,交通警是为路人服务在先,然后再让交通工具行走。
可是在我国,这里的交通警不但不是为路人服务,还不懂得如何尊重路人!

从公司走路去Pavilion,需要过两条马路,这两条马路都有斑马线和行人红绿灯。
昨天,正好去Pavilion用餐。也刚好遇到我们的交通警!
这位交通警真的是一个很有“礼貌”和很“尊重”人的交通警!

两对面的都站满了路人,等待着要过马路。正常的按了行人红绿灯,等待行人红绿灯转青。
可,红绿灯转了2次,我们的交通警却当作看不到,一直让车辆行走。
有些车停下来让人走,他却大骂!要司机继续走。。

有一个外国人就在这个时候,不耐烦地冲过去,然后告诉他,行人红绿灯是青色的!
这个交通警却大声地开骂那个老外:这里是我说话!

真是他妈的!!什么交通警!
我的手机坏了,在用着旧的手机,没办法录起来。
不然,我会给他录上来,然后让大家看看这是什么一个交通警!
真的是越来越讨厌这里的警察!!!

Blog EntryJul 29, '11 12:32 PM
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很久没有为我的部落格改变面貌了。
我想将近2年多吧。。。
今天,突然心血来潮地为我的部落格转换一些新面貌。
呵呵。。。
暂时还没有太多的改变
或许灵感来时再做改变吧。。

Blog EntryJun 30, '11 10:30 AM
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这次,我又用我的眼睛看世界了。虽然这次的旅程是公干,但还是不忘用眼睛看看不一样的世界。这次的世界是越南的一个小镇 - Quy Nhon。

从吉隆坡搭上晚上8点的飞机飞往Ho Chi Minh。 然后在附近的一间酒店住上几个小时,第二天又搭内地飞机飞往Quy Nhon。到达Quy Nhon后,就搭的士到酒店。放下行李,就去客户的办公室开会和讨论细节。下午客户带我们去吃了一个小时的海鲜午餐。。。忙碌的一天一直维持到傍晚7点才回到酒店。然后我们就出去找吃的,谁知找不到吃而回到酒店地餐馆吃。因为最主要的原因是我们和当地人的语言不通。

第二天,我们又是早起的一天,客户安排了的士早上5点半到我们的酒店来接我们进hydro power plant site。在途中也接了几个客户一起进site。大概7点,客户带我们到沿路去site的一间点吃早餐。平时很少吃猪肉的我,却在那时候,吃了很多的猪肉。因为,客户为我们一人点了一个猪头,还有一些道地的面和米饼。那里的面和米饼都不错。。。而且那里的茶也特别的香。

吃过早餐后,我们又继续赶路。大概又坐了两个多小时的车程,终于抵达目的地。参观了他们的site和机器,我们又继续一些科技上的问题,一直维持到下午1点多才结束。问题结束后,客户就带我们到附近的一间小店吃鸡肉。当然,除了鸡肉还有一些面。

这个午餐吃得特别长,大概3点半我们才离开小店。然后又坐3个小时的车程回酒店。。。还是一样,我们选择在酒店解决我们的晚餐。

明天,又是累的一天。因为,又得一大早醒来坐飞机去Ho Chi Minh。然后,在Ho Chi Minh待几个小时才有机回吉隆坡。

这个旅程,我的结论是:“解开了视野,增加了劳累。“
虽然是累,不过我还是见识到不一样的人和环境。
虽然路途遥远和凹凸不平,但也看到很多绿油油的稻田。算是一个优待吧。。。。

Blog EntryJun 28, '11 3:17 AM
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Recently, feeling stress all the time. Even I try to relax myself, but I still feel uncomfortable all the time. Most of the reason is come from work. The work here is getting tough and uneasy. The HQ is not supportive. Really don't know what I can do at this moment and stage.

Another few more hours, I need to take the flight to Vietnam already. Again, it's a business trip. Luckily the trip is not as short as the Indonesia trip that I went before. Friends said, enjoy the trip. But I really don't think I can enjoy lo...

Very tired... Long working hours, but low productivity; more order, but no resources; more ideas, but no action.... what the company want?

Every night, I have dreams... dream about work, about people, about projects, about problems... how long can I stand? I need a long holiday... But, I can't. I got many projects on hand which having problems...


Blog EntryJun 24, '11 1:40 PM
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在吃着晚餐的当儿,突然间胃痛起来~!
忍到回家,吃了颗药。。。
以为会好起来的,结果两个小时后,胃痛又发作。。
不知道是因为压力,还是吃不定时。。。
胃痛就是不好起来。。
结果,到现在,还挂在网上
等胃痛好些才能入睡。。。

Blog EntryJun 21, '11 7:57 PM
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原本一年最少一次旅行的我
今年必须耽搁了
现在的我,很想去旅行,去放松心情。。。
可是,今年有很多事要忙,不知要如何抽身。
也找不到朋友一起去伴游~
最重要的是,没有多余的$$$。。。
唯有努力的工作和呆在家。。。
让今年的旅行变成一个梦~
让梦带我去飞翔,去旅行吧~

Blog EntryJun 20, '11 2:28 AM
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最近,超级没心情!
不过,说来说去还是工作~!
总是有一大堆问题无法解决。
有些人不断的制造问题! 
解决了一个问题,另外两个问题又出现~!
如果那么本事,那全部自己做,不要叫别人做!
做不来又要做英雄!
全是一堆屁!

Blog EntryMar 31, '11 3:57 AM
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As usual, after I finished work, I will take lift from 5 floor to Ground floor. Then, take staircase from ground floor to B1 to take my car.

Yesterday was my first time fell down from staircase in my life (if I not mistaken la :P)
Luckily just slipped about 3 - 5 steps only, not roll down XD

Always watch drama/movie, people fell down from staircase, will rolled from top till the end. When I was slipped that moment, I was about to see myself roll down, but luckily able to hold the holder. Else, I think I will be in big problem =p

After fell, trying to stand up again & continue walked to my car. At first, still feeling OK one. But after few steps further, I saw my toe start bleeding & the pain start attacking. Anyhow, still forcing myself to walk till get my car. When get into my car, start feeling my toe become numb.

Wow.. another positive thinking fly through my mind. Luckily it's injured my left toe & ankle. Else, really don't know how to get back home. hehe...

Need to be an old woman for few days, hopefully can be recover before 16th Apr, because having marathon during that day.

Oh ya, here is the photos of my ankle & toe =p


Blog EntryMar 27, '11 9:09 PM
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Yesterday, I went to my aunt's house. She got a Wrist Blood Pressure Monitor at home.
So, I tried to test for my own blood pressure.
This is how it look like, if you don't know what is that:

My result as per below:
Sys/Dia: 93/59
Pulse: 55

Normal rate is :
Sys/Dia: 120/80
Pulse: 60-100

My aunt said, it's very low.
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Since I'm lack of knowledge on this, so I "google" & search for normal blood pressure & pulse rate:

Here it shown:
93/59 - It's not really low, it just the lowest rate from the normal blood pressure only. It call it low normal. It is quite common for Athletes or children. (But, I'm not athletes or children :P )

Means I have to keep my blood pressure up. If drop, then I might become weak & tired easily, will get dizzy or fainting.

How to keep my blood pressure up? Normally, people will take supplementary. But I don't relies on supplement.

The other way will be do more exercise~!! (the cheapest & faster way ^^)

So, I have no excuses to stop any hike already, right? Hmm...

Another 3 weeks, is my 11km marathon. Not sure I can finish it or not, due to no training at all :P

Blog EntryMar 4, '11 4:59 AM
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How do you judge a person is good or bad? How do you know a person is telling truth or lie? How do you read a person?

Some people told, he is a good man, you should consider him. Some people told, he is bad, don't be too close with him. Some people said, she is bitch, don't trust her. Some people said, she is humor, you are lucky to know her.... etc....

Some people also told me that, I'm a good gal. But, how they judge that I'm a good gal if myself don't even know it?

Humans are complicated. It's really hard to understand what a human's think. Why a person like to lie? Why a person like to crime, etc... Yes, we do need a lot of observation & awareness, as the world now is unsafe. But, how do you know if a person trying to be good with you for a year is part of the planning? (as per news keep on published in the newspaper lately).

How do you know a person if love you in deep, which bring the danger to you? Is the world sick or the humans changed? How can the society help these people? How can these people seek for help?

Study a human, really difficult than study a mathematics. Don't you think so?

Blog EntryMar 1, '11 10:42 PM
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Hahaha... don't think bad hor~

Today's topic is "Have you experience sleep in naked body when you are alone?" How you feel it?

One of my gal friend told me that, it's fun & nice~ especially you are in cool weather...

I never try it, so don't know what is the feel...
Let's share yours one if you tried it before ^^